Field Notes
Stories, guides, and real weddings.
Planning guides, wedding features, and dispatches from the estate, written to help you plan with confidence.
How Many People Should You Invite to a Wedding?
Struggling with your wedding guest list? Here's how to determine the right number of guests based on your venue, budget, and relationship priorities.
The Museum at Hoppenville · August 16, 2026
How Far in Advance Should You Book a Wedding Venue?
Wondering when to book your wedding venue? The answer depends on your date, location, and flexibility. Here's a timeline guide for every situation.
August 15, 2026
Wedding Music Guide: DJ vs Band, and What to Play When
Music makes or breaks a wedding reception. Here's how to choose between a DJ and a live band, build your playlist, and keep the dance floor packed.
August 14, 2026
Wedding Flowers on a Budget: Where to Save and Where to Splurge
Wedding flowers can cost $1,500 or $15,000. Here's how to allocate your floral budget wisely, where to save, where to splurge, and alternatives that look amazing.
August 13, 2026
What Is a First Look? Pros and Cons for Your Wedding Day
Should you do a first look before the ceremony? Here's an honest look at the pros and cons of seeing each other before you walk down the aisle.
August 12, 2026
How to Create a Wedding Seating Chart Without Losing Your Mind
The seating chart is one of the most stressful parts of wedding planning. Here's a systematic approach to placing every guest without family drama.
August 11, 2026
Wedding Photography: How to Choose a Photographer You'll Love
Your wedding photographer captures moments you'll look at for decades. Here's how to find the right one based on style, budget, and personality.
August 10, 2026
How to Write Wedding Vows: Tips, Examples, and What to Avoid
Writing your own vows? Here's a practical guide to crafting personal, meaningful vows that sound like you and don't make you panic at the altar.
August 9, 2026
What to Wear to a Wedding as a Guest: Dress Code Guide
Black tie? Cocktail? Garden party? Decode wedding dress codes with this straightforward guide to what to wear as a wedding guest for every formality level.
August 8, 2026
Do You Need a Wedding Planner? When to Hire, When to DIY
Not sure if you need a wedding planner? Here's an honest look at what planners do, what they cost, and when you can (and can't) successfully DIY your wedding.
August 7, 2026
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